Do you have any idea that your inability to control a situation is caused by your inability to control yourself. Today on this #WisdomWednesday I am going to give you my take on this topic.
A situation can often get confused when a person feels as if everything is out of control. This situation at hand is what is actually out of control but whose control is it actually out of? If you take a step back from the situation, you will see that your part is not the part that is the problem that is out of control. What YOU want is never out of control because, it is what you want. You know what you want, you know how you want it done, you know who you want to do it and you know how long a timespan you want it completed in. The part that is out of control is the other person and yet you are the one suffering and stressed.
Let me explain. The only reason that you feel out of control or that a situation is out of control is because you are trying to control someone else and their thoughts and beliefs. The same way that someone cannot control your situation, you too cannot expect to control someone else’s situation. When you try to control someone else, that is where your stress comes in and that is where all your problems begin. Once you get on this terrible and dangerous rollercoaster ride of trying to control the way another person thinks or believes, your life becomes inundated trying to figure out how to make the other party conform to you. That mentality I am here to tell you will only cause your downfall and your destruction.
So what do you do when you feel that a situation is getting out of control? First, you have to recognize that the situation is not out of control at all but that the problem is that the opposite party is in disagreement with your expectations. Secondly, once you realize this, it is time to walk away from those in opposition to you and you must make the conscious effort to find other like minded people who will compliment your needs and desires rather than wasting precious energy trying to convince people to conform to you.
The point of this blog is to make you understand that with almost eight billion people on this planet, stop stressing over people who are not like minded with your beliefs. Walk away from those who refuse to see your views and gather people who will blend with your ways. It really is that simple. Please do not misunderstand me though. I am not saying that the people who are in disagreement with you are wrong or bad, I am simply saying that they are on different planes as you so move on. Also, remember that just because you find like minded people to work with you does not necesarrily mean that you had the better idea, it just means that you have people who believe the same way you do so stay open minded to change and adaptation but do it with people who are on the same page that you are so that you can avoid unnecessary control battles, stress and disastrous waste of time and money.
Every single situation in life is a lesson to be learned whether it is a lesson to never repeat something again or whether it is a lesson learned to grow and prosper. As long as you remain true to who you are and to your belief system, you cannot go wrong. One way to continuously continue to learn and to grow is to continue to learn, period. My favorite way for people to do this is through reading because you can continuously read through material over and over again until it is engrained in you. The book I have chosen for today is Control Your Destiny Or Someone Else Will. Please go and get a copy from your library or borrow it from a friend. if neither option is available, here is a link to get your own copy from Amazon >> https://amzn.to/301sE8s
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